A Question

Something I’ve been thinking about for the past several years but that I’ve been fully brooding about since the election (and the attendant flurry of takes about “polarization”) is this: when and under what circumstances is it possible to be friends (or lovers, for that matter) with someone with whom you have vehement political or moral disagreements? (There is now a whole discourse about whether right-leaning men and left-leaning women can love each other, Lord help us.)