Imagine that you are an accomplished young woman, walking into a campus coffee shop toward the end of your senior year. Your eye catches a cute guy sitting across the room, talking to his friends. You smile inwardly, then get down to studying.
After a while, you get up for another coffee—and he gets in line behind you. He strikes up a conversation. Apparently you know some of the same people. You order, and move over to wait. You’re trying to check your texts, but your ear picks up his voice like a radio signal, louder and clearer than it should be. You wonder whether you should ask your friends about him.
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